A 39-year-old man wrote to our editorial seeking guidance on his extremely problematic family situation. His statement seemed like a genuine cry for help, and the man appeared desperate.<\/p>\n
He found and read his wife\u2019s diary, and his actions were justified by the fact that she was in a coma and he only wanted a piece of her.<\/p>\n
Instead, he was completely devastated by what he discovered about his spouse\u2019s nature and actions.<\/p>\n
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A distraught 39-year-old man wrote to us and shared his incredibly awful family tragedy.<\/p>\n
He begged for no judgement and hoped to receive assistance from us and our readers regarding his problematic family situation.<\/p>\n
He began his letter by adding, \u201cI hope I have written to the right place to get some advice.\u201d I can\u2019t talk to anyone about it, and I doubt I\u2019ll be able to share my tale with my closest family members.\u00bb<\/p>\n
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The man continues, saying that his beloved wife has suffered from a bad accident some time ago. This accident resulted in her being in an 8-day coma.<\/p>\n
He explained, \u00abWhen my spouse went into the coma, it is obvious that no one really knew at the time how long it was going to last. I thought that it would be months, and maybe even years, before my wife would ever wake up. I was not even sure if she actually would wake up from that coma, and it felt for me like I had lost her already.\u00bb<\/p>\n
The man described his feelings at that moment, saying, \u00abI was absolutely broken, I was destroyed with grief and all that uncertainty was killing me. Every day that was passing with no optimistic news just plunged me deeper into despair.\u00bb<\/p>\n
The man also stated that their connection had always been practically perfect. He said, \u201cWe\u2019ve been married for 15 years.\u201d We\u2019ve traveled all over the world together. I can honestly claim that she is my best friend, and I am hers.<\/p>\n
I imagined my life would end if the doctors told me my wife would go brain dead or not wake up.<\/p>\n
The man admitted that he was completely desperate about the whole scenario. One night, he sat in their bedroom, feeling terrible.<\/p>\n
He stated, \u201cI felt emotionally and physically drained by it all.\u201d That was another day without good news. I chose to lie on her side of the bed because I could smell her through the pillows, which made me feel comforted.<\/p>\n
The man explained that his wife applied lotion every night before going to bed, and he opened the drawer to get the bottle of lotion from there because he wanted to smell it. Then he noticed his wife\u2019s diary there.<\/p>\n
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He explained, \u201cI\u2019ve never handled her items before, and I knew about the diary but never opened it. That night, all I wanted was a bit of my sweetheart; I was hurting greatly. I could have reviewed our old texts or anything, but logical thinking wasn\u2019t one of my strong suits back then. I understand it\u2019s not a good justification, but it is what it is.\u00bb<\/p>\n
So, he started to read his wife\u2019s diary. The man revealed that his wife wrote her entries days or months apart. Her diary was started about 4 years ago. And while reading it, the man slowly felt how his hair was standing on end, because of what his beloved wife was writing in her diary.<\/p>\n
The man wrote, \u00abFrom the start, I was terrified that almost all of the diary entries were angry ones. They were about female friends or social media followers. My beloved spouse wrote long paragraphs about how they were ugly and not talented and described their every negative trait.\u00bb<\/p>\n
\u00abShe would become absolutely infuriated if a woman ever followed me on social media or if we met some female friend in real life. My wife wrote long pages about each of these women and how she wanted to see their lives destroyed.\u00bb<\/p>\n
The man revealed that his wife turned to be very angry that he \u00abhad all the attention\u00bb and didn\u2019t just delete his female followers online. She was furious if a woman followed her husband\u2019s account and didn\u2019t also immediately do the same with her account because \u00abhe is my husband, she must respect my feelings and show that she doesn\u2019t have any intentions towards my man.\u00bb<\/p>\n
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The man revealed that, while reading his wife\u2019s diary he found out that she made long rants how all women around him were actively trying to disrespect their marriage by every action they made, even the most innocent one.<\/p>\n
He highlighted that all his wife\u2019s emotions were absolutely pointless, because, as he explained, \u00abNone of the women she was angry about has ever written to me an inappropriate message, none of them acted in any other manner except a friendly one towards me. All these people were actually hometown friends or schoolmates.\u00bb<\/p>\n
The man doesn\u2019t know what to do with all information that he discovered.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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